What We Can Help With:

“The therapeutic alliance appears as a secure base… the human psyche, like human bones, is strongly inclined towards self-healing.” – John Bowlby

Depression is much more than feeling a ‘bit down’ or ‘low’ occasionally, and it can be experienced in various ways, and there is no single universal experience.

Certain individuals experience acute episodes of severe depression that last for a relatively brief duration, while others may endure chronic, mild depression for an extended period, potentially spanning several years.

Depression can give the sensation of eroding the very essence of one's being and one can easily lose hope that things will ever feel better again. Different varieties of depression may need different forms of support.

Anxiety arises from our innate 'fight or flight' instinct. This occurs when our body perceives a threat or perceives itself to be in a state of danger. Occasional anxiety is a normal part of life.  But for people with an anxiety disorder, the anxiety does not go away and can get worse over time. Anxiety disorders are classified into different kinds, including generalised anxiety disorder, panic disorder, social anxiety disorder, and phobia-related disorders.

We all encounter relationship challenges at some point in our lives. Misinterpretations and conflicts have the potential to escalate into enduring feelings of strain and dissatisfaction. Contemporary relationship counselling does not aim to assign blame or attribute problems to any specific individual or group. The focus lies in understanding the negative cycle specific to your relationship.

We all face loss at some point in our lives, allowing ourselves to grieve and process the loss is crucial to our well-being. Complicated grief usually arises from the death of a loved one, where the loss has left you stuck in a state of bereavement. You may struggle to accept your loved one's death, look for them in familiar places, experience intense longing, or think life is pointless.

- Accepting the reality of the death

- Making sense of the death

- Acquiring coping strategies

- Accepting the sadness

- Finding meaning in life without ...

- Anticipating a positive future.

Optimal stress, when experienced in the appropriate manner, timing, and magnitude, can facilitate the attainment of goals by invigorating cognitive processes and fostering innovative thinking, while also supplying the necessary impetus to enhance overall performance. However, if stress is sustained at an elevated level for an extended period, the complete opposite occurs and this can have severe health consequences.

Early attachment styles and childhood experiences influence our sense of self and how we interact with the world around us and our future relationships. As adults, our internal dialogue is shaped by the interactions and nurturing we got from our parents.

Trans-generational trauma, also known as intergenerational trauma, is when the experiences of parents affect the development of their children, even possibly their grandchildren.

Although researchers are still in the process of fully comprehending intergenerational trauma, it appears that the manner in which parents raise and interact with their children influences the expression of specific genes in future generations. The symptoms of intergenerational trauma include:

- Lack of trust
- Anger, frustration, or irritability
- Insecurity and poor self-esteem
- Anxiety disorders and depression
- Dissociation and numbing
- Hyper-vigilance
- Separation anxiety
- Social avoidance and withdrawal